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    Boomer Grandpa's Dangerous Test Leaves Celiac Child Seriously Ill

    Reviewed and edited by a celiac disease expert.

    The story of this mother and her son is a stark reminder of the dangers that can arise when serious medical conditions are not taken seriously.

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    Celiac.com 10/01/2024 - The incident involving a child's serious medical condition being disregarded by an adult at a sleepover has sparked widespread outrage. A mother is now considering pressing charges after a grandfather at a sleepover deliberately fed her celiac son wheat, causing him to become violently ill. This situation has highlighted the ongoing skepticism surrounding gluten intolerance and celiac disease, even though these conditions are medically recognized.

    The Dangerous Skepticism Around Celiac Disease

    Celiac disease is an autoimmune disorder where the ingestion of gluten leads to damage in the small intestine. For those diagnosed with this condition, avoiding gluten is not a dietary preference but a necessity to prevent severe health issues. Despite this, there remains a segment of the population, often older generations, who dismiss gluten intolerance and celiac disease as modern-day fabrications.

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    The elderly man in question, described as a baby boomer, exemplified this dangerous skepticism. Upon hearing about the child’s condition, he dismissed it as nonsense, citing that such issues did not exist in his youth. This denial of the child’s medical needs went beyond mere words, as he deliberately switched out the child's gluten-free breakfast to one containing wheat, resulting in the child becoming seriously ill.

    The Immediate Consequences

    When the mother picked up her son after the sleepover, she was confronted with a horrifying scene. Her son was "throwing up and green," a clear sign that he had ingested something harmful. The host mother, who was also horrified by the grandfather’s actions, informed her that he had intentionally given the child a wheat-containing breakfast.

    Understandably furious, the mother confronted the grandfather, who remained unapologetic. She expressed her anger, even using strong language, which she later reflected was a mild reaction considering the harm done to her son. The rest of her day was spent caring for her son, nursing him back to health after his severe reaction.

    Legal Considerations: Should Charges Be Pressed?

    The incident did not just leave the mother emotionally shaken; it also raised serious legal questions. After discussing the situation with the host mother, they both agreed that pressing charges might be necessary. The host mother, seemingly tired of the grandfather’s behavior, supported the idea of legal action, recognizing that this was not just a mistake but a deliberate act of harm.

    Legal experts note that the mother may have a strong case. There are laws in place, such as Elijah's Law, which mandates that schools and childcare providers adhere to children’s food allergy requirements. While this incident did not occur in a school setting, the deliberate nature of the act could potentially lead to charges of personal injury or even endangerment, given the severity of the child’s reaction and the risks associated with celiac disease.

    The Broader Implications: Understanding Celiac Disease

    This incident sheds light on a broader issue: the ongoing misunderstanding and dismissal of celiac disease and other food-related medical conditions. For individuals with celiac disease, the consequences of consuming gluten are not just discomfort but can lead to long-term health issues, including damage to the small intestine, malnutrition, and increased risk of certain cancers. Despite this, there remains a pervasive attitude, especially among some older individuals, that these conditions are overblown or imaginary.

    For those living with celiac disease, incidents like this are not just isolated events but a reflection of a larger societal problem. The dismissal of their medical needs can lead to serious, even life-threatening situations. This highlights the importance of education and awareness around celiac disease and gluten intolerance, particularly among those who may not have grown up with an understanding of these conditions.

    Conclusion: Why This Matters to the Celiac Community

    The story of this mother and her son is a stark reminder of the dangers that can arise when serious medical conditions are not taken seriously. For those with celiac disease, the implications of gluten exposure are severe, and the ignorance or skepticism of others can have devastating consequences. This incident serves as a call to action for better education and understanding of celiac disease, as well as for stronger protections for those who live with it. The mother’s decision to consider legal action is not just about seeking justice for her son but also about sending a message that the health and safety of those with celiac disease must be respected and protected.

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    OldNavyWife54

    This man reminds me of my mother and my siblings. They never took my diagnosis seriously and were always dismissive of it. It took me to age 53 to get diagnosed and it made a huge difference in my health once I went 100% gluten free, but they still made light of it.

    So in 2016 when I was asked to take in my elderly mother, and later my younger brother as well, I felt a few boundaries would be necessary. One was no smoking in my home (obvious), and the second was no gluten-containing foods in my kitchen. My brother was going to have the entire finished basement to himself, complete with bedroom, full bath, family room and kitchenette. Additionally, I was not going to be charging either of them anything. I should add too that I’m a permanently disabled widow who lives alone.

    I no sooner sent off the email containing those 2 house rules but what my mother called, screaming at me. She wanted to know who I thought I was to be making rules that would affect my little brother? I told her I knew EXACTLY who I was, and that was sole owner of my house, and I most certainly would impose those 2 house rules. I told her that they knew very well that I was not going to be charging them a dime, and that if they did not like my rules, they were welcome to stay where they were. She stated that they certainly would do exactly that.

    An entire year later my older brother called, at the request of my little brother, stating that he was now willing to accept my rules, and wanted to know if he and our mother were still welcome? I stated that the invitation had been permanently rescinded.

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    Jim Chris

    Good for you. People who are that inconsiderate do not deserve to live with you.

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